From time to time you can get stuck in the slump of dating duds, but a lot of the time dating losers and being with them for prolonged periods of time have more to do with allowing “losers” to stay in your life rather than attracting them. Everyone attracts “losers.” We all interact with these people in some way, but only some of us allow them to stay in our lives and open the door for the to come on in!

The first step to not attracting losers is to stop letting them in! They may still show up, but you have to be strong and say “no.” If you really are sick of dating “losers” you can’t let them linger. If you are serious about getting serious when it comes to dating then you can’t mess around and waste time with these “losers” or the universe will just give you more of the same.

Even when you decide that you are done with dating “losers” and you have decided to slam the door on them for good, they will still show up at your door. This is a test. I repeat, THIS IS A TEST. A lot of times before the universe gives you what you want they send you more of what you don’t want to test your strength. You’re not going to let them linger, right? Or maybe you’re not really ready for something serious? In that case, date all the “losers” you want!